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Re: I LIIIIIIIIVE!
« Reply #30 on: Feb 04, 2015, 01:09AM »
He made her so mad when he said he was no longer using protection knowing she's not on the pill because lack of funds.

So I'd rather live elsewhere and not get in the middle of the fights. I'm like the less shady version of Don Lothario.

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« Reply #31 on: Feb 04, 2015, 11:51AM »
Yeah, that's kind of a dick move :/ He could've used them until she had worked a bit and could better the situation. What was the rush, buddy? Geez.

Okay, I laughed at that xD

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« Reply #32 on: Feb 05, 2015, 02:30AM »
He's excuse was that since they were married he could no longer deny her his sperm.
We both want to hit him for that.

And excellent, my plan succeeded.

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« Reply #33 on: Feb 05, 2015, 08:01AM »
That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard -.- Talk about thinking with his wrong head. Oh, I don't want to wear condoms anymore because we're married and apparently my preference means more than the plan we had to be in better financial standing to afford a baby. Don't like it? Oh well!? Ugh. I'm sure there's more to it than that but it just... makes me really uncomfortable and it's not even my business. I just feel like if my husband implied his needs/wants were more important than mine when it's my body he'd have to go impregnate someone else because he wouldn't be getting any ass from me. Thankfully he doesn't want kids either.

Sorry. I appear to be moody this morning.

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« Reply #34 on: Feb 05, 2015, 09:17PM »
There really isn't any more to it than that.
They hadn't even been married a full month when she took the test and it came back positive; nd it makes me so angry because he knew what the plans were.
Hell when they moved from Florida to New Mexico where I live, instead of finding a place to live here in town where he works; he dragged her to a city 2 hours north of us. And now expects her to drive him into work at 3AM for 3 days a week.
It's just like.
Dude, she is pregnant. She needs to rest. You buying only cheap food and then having her get up early to drive you to work is ridiculous.
I understand that she loves him; but I love her and get so grr thinking about the crap he's putting onto her.

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« Reply #35 on: Feb 05, 2015, 11:13PM »
Maaaan this guy has some nerve! o.O

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« Reply #36 on: Feb 06, 2015, 12:46AM »
Seriously when she and I met 7 years ago, if I had had my own place I would have invited her to move out west with me. I wasn't free to move around till about 2 years ago, I should have made her come back with my father and I 3/4 years back when we were out there to see the family.
She wasn't with the husband yet.

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« Reply #37 on: Feb 06, 2015, 12:39PM »
She would have avoided all that BS for one thing >.> How long were they together before they got married?

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« Reply #38 on: Feb 06, 2015, 08:00PM »
Honestly I want to say two or three months.

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« Reply #39 on: Feb 07, 2015, 10:42AM »
Hmm, I see.

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« Reply #40 on: Feb 08, 2015, 02:27PM »
Probably should have waited to get to know each other a little better. Now he's kind of controlling everything :(

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« Reply #41 on: Feb 08, 2015, 05:05PM »
He really is, though it would be cute to text me yesterday while I was working that he's changed job locations which means it'll now be more difficult for my lady and I to see one another as my car has faulty breaks so I can't drive up to see them all the time.

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« Reply #42 on: Feb 08, 2015, 05:09PM »
Oh nice, so he's going to alienate her now too. Wonderful! >.<

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« Reply #43 on: Feb 08, 2015, 05:22PM »
Yep.
Her due date is close, and they've only got the one car.
Neither of them have any family in New Mexico, only me and mine.

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« Reply #44 on: Feb 08, 2015, 05:35PM »
She must be so upset :(