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« on: Jul 19, 2010, 07:52PM »
So, I wasn't originally going to say anything here but I just need to.....spill it out?
I have been friends with this girl since she was very little. We've been like almost sisters. Just recently she turned 18 and got engaged to a guy who is in the military (who is overseas atm).
Since then she has been nothing but mean to me, having a bad attitude about everything. Everything was going better until just recently...like this week. I have been pet-sitting for a family for 2 weeks now, this is my second week doing it. and I have been staying at their house because the dog is older and needs to go out more often.
So this girl thinks I am ignoring her because I haven't talked to her at church? When in reality I have had other things on my mind and haven't really talked to anybody at church, except for one of my closer friends who is the same age as me but is married and has kids of her own.
And I guess now even her fiancé is getting into it....saying I'm stupid and I'm the reason for her life problems. To top that off I learned out from one of her friends that I'm no longer in her wedding and that we had a so-called 'fight'. I was supposed to be her maid of honor but it would be nice if she told this to my face and there was never a fight because she refused to talk to my face. Instead, she's back stabbing me.
So i'm like between a rock and a hard place because I'm being lied about. My parents are also p'od about it so my mum e-mailed her mother to try to solve this but I think it's beyond being solved. Who knows if and when her fiancé comes back if she'll change. I just feel royally put out. I'm trying not to let it bother me but it still worked itself under my skin.
I don't believe I deserve to be treated like this but I don't even think if I confronted her about it that she would listen. She's very immature for her age and so is her fiancé.
So that's how my life has been this week. I surely hope it gets better and I have the joy of seeing her Wednesday night at church. Joy of all joys.